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Tai O'Donnell

Tai O’Donnell was murdered by his ex-girlfriend, Kamila Ahmad, in his own flat in Croydon. This is a story of coercive control, missed chances, and a victim who never got the help he needed.

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Key Details

  • Victim: Tai Jordan O'Donnell aged 19

  • Perpetrator: Kamila Ahmad aged 22 at the time

  • Date: 03 March 2021

  • Location: Tai's flat, Alpha Road, Croydon

Key Facts

  • Tai was a kind, gentle, creative teenager studying music at Croydon College.


  • He was close to his mum, Stacey, and had strong relationships with friends and family.


  • Tai met Kamila Ahmad at college – she was older, intense, and already had a violent history.


  • Ahmad had 11 previous convictions for 26 offences, including assault, battery, robbery, and grievous bodily harm against a previous partner.


  • Their relationship quickly became toxic: she was controlling, possessive, and emotionally volatile.


  • Tai didn’t report the abuse. He hinted to friends that she was "too much" but seemed more focused on managing the situation than escaping it.


  • His mum raised concerns, but without a formal complaint, there was no safeguarding.


  • On 3 March 2021, Ahmad came to Tai’s flat and stabbed him four times, one wound severing his femoral artery.


  • She didn’t call for help. Instead, she filmed Tai as he lay dying and left.


  • His body was found over 16 hours later after his mum raised the alarm.


  • A video found on Ahmad’s phone showed Tai dying while she did nothing to help.


  • She was arrested and charged within days, but her trial was delayed due to COVID and court backlogs.


  • In court, she claimed she didn’t intend to kill him, but the jury found her guilty of murder.


  • The judge called her violent, controlling, and utterly without remorse.


  • Tai’s death has shone a light on how male victims of domestic abuse are often ignored or disbelieved.


  • His case also raised questions about why Ahmad, with such a violent history, wasn’t more closely monitored.


  • Campaigners are calling for more training across police, colleges and services to help recognise abuse – no matter who the victim is.

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